He must be........or he wouldn't do that/be here.

I keep hearing this one: Went to the baths, had unsafe sex. The negative guys think, "damn, he's hot, doesn't look sick, no reason to worry." Poz guys think, "If he were not poz already, he wouldn't be in the baths with his butt in the air and the door wide open.

Ask. Tell.

This quiet misunderstanding is leading to lots of new infections. You can't tell by looking. You can't guess by risk taking or geography.